My boy has been not doing well out there in the world after college graduation.
- It started off great and then things just slowly fell apart and he lost control of what could make him successful and what doesn’t.
I think the main problem here is that he kept buying, buying, and buying because he wanted to have everything at a young age and then just build off of that. Like he bought a new car, a house, a boat, and various other things. He wanted to live the life of a millionaire way too early. There is nothing wrong with having ambitions but it is wrong to overspend yourself. I know he is learning a tough lesson but we all go through them. I personally don’t like stepping in and helping my kids get out of a sticky situation but with how everything is going down in his life, it makes me a bit nervous that I could not help him. Other than getting a ticket, falling behind in bills, his HVAC system broke down and winter is coming. I tried doing the inexpensive thing and looking at it and seeing if I could repair it but I knew I couldn’t. I was hoping I could but I called the HVAC company to take a look at it. I didn’t want my boy going through a winter of freezing so I knew a heating technician would be needed for a situation like this. I know I can’t help my son with everything in life and I don’t want to but he needs me for this moment and I will be there.