I go to the beach a few times a afternoon to just clear my mind and get out of the house. Occasionally my thoughts can close in on myself and others when I am cooped up inside too long and going to the beach seems to release those thoughts and allow myself and others to be free again without any cares. Both of us should try to stay lighthearted and carefree most of the time because all is well and that is the real truth. Both of us can know our life is miserable if we choose to although I have had enough pain and am done with that. The current business down the street is very wonderful at lifting my spirits when I am feeling down and I am so grateful to have a wonderful associate like that. He works a lot and it is quite busy most evenings but once in a while he pops by and we have a good chat about life and all kinds of cool topics. He installed a geo heat pump in my place last year and has saved myself and others so much currency in power bills. I try to help him in any way possible to kind of repay all of the things he has done for myself and others over the past few years. He offered myself and others some good energy saving tips that have made a world of a difference in my heating and cooling costs this past year or 2. I know I will invite him over for a wonderful lake house cooked meal soon and another talk about life. Friends are the best!